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Feminism, Part 1



Part 1, My opinion
I studied advanced level (grade 10-12) at an all-girls science and tech school, Gashora Girls Academy of Science and Technology (GGAST). It is assumed by people who know the school that everyone who studies at GGAST is a feminist. I proudly consider myself a feminist, however I don’t believe in labels; so most time I would rather not be called feminist.

Feminism to me is the need for gender equity. The bottom line is; women should be considered human above all. In most systems of oppression, the oppressed is first treated as the other, lesser human. This makes it easier for the oppressor to do the oppressing while suppressing their conscience that condemns the actions.

One day, on my way to a debate camp, I argued with a guy on feminism. I don’t like arguing by nature, but I can’t let anyone bully me into accepting their beliefs. For two hours we argued that some things are meant to be done by women and others are not. He talked about female anatomy and mental attributes. He said they serve better for some activities and not for others. Most of his arguments made sense though. However, this does not mean that they are the only truth.

Growing up, I have never been discouraged to do things because I am a girl, but I was forced to do some activities. Every time the house help went on a break, my sister and I were supposed to do dishes and cook; my brother mopped the house and other chores. The activities we did were labelled as feminine. The thing I am grateful for is that my brother still did the cooking and washing dishes on occasion.

Feminism, like most social movements, has its flaws. Many- so called- feminists wear the label without acting the part. Others actively participate in the patriarchy. For many, feminism has been turned into something that advances capitalism. To me, feminism is nothing but a word if not acted upon.

The only reason why I take the feminist label is that systems of oppression need to be destroyed, and if it means loosening some of my convictions so be it. In French they say, de deux maus, il faut en choisir le moindre, I chose the lesser evil- dismantling the system of gender oppression rather than being passive or supporting it.

GIRLAFESTO

I AM A GIRL. bright, able, outspoken, softspoken, serious, spirited, adventurous, curious and strong.
i am me. i follow. i lead. i learn, i teach. i change my clothes, my hair, my music and my mind. 
I have a voice that speaks, ideas to stand on, and a world to step up to. i matter. and so does she.
she may look different and talk different, but she is like me. SHE IS A GIRL. And together we will rise up. Because while we are strong, together we are stronger. And together, our voices will change out world.
You see a girl.


WE SEE THE FUTURE.

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